This is from my book Coat Hangers and Knitting Needles probably the most painful book I have ever written. Listening to the stories of the women I cried over and over. We thought the fight was over, but now women are dying again because of laws usually made by men who will never have to face an unwanted pregnancy with no good solutions.
Chapter 27
Jane Roe vs. Norma
McCorvey
Weddington promised to take care of her, she(McCorvey) said.
Being “taken care of” was a
phrase she used in
more than one interview.
22 January 1973
My daughter was four that day. I had slept at my mother’s, not just to celebrate my child’s birthday but because my sister-in-law, a
hairdresser, was in a competition. She had asked me to be her model because my
red hair would stand out on the stage.
I had rushed around
trying to find the right outfit to match the hairstyle she was creating. I found a full-length, navy-blue, Victorian-era-style dress.
We didn’t win. But we did hear the Roe v. Wade Supreme Court decision
announcement.
I had not been a furious campaigner for abortion rights,
although I’d done a few pro-choice
marches. I’d spent more time lobbying during
my lunch hour at the National Fire Prevention
Association for the Boston legislature to try to pass the Equal Rights Amendment. The State House was only a few blocks away from my office, and I felt a great deal of pride whenever
I entered the building. My grandfather had done much of the engineering on a reconstruction of the gold dome.
As a divorced woman,
trying to raise a child,
I was aware of the many disadvantages I had as a woman,
including my smaller paycheck than the men at the same level with less
experience. Still I had made it into lower management.
Many of my
friends had sought illegal abortions dangerously in back alleys or safely
through the Clergy Consultation Service (CCS). At the time I thought the CCS
operated just in Massachusetts. Only when writing this book did I realize that
it was nationwide.
Roe v. Wade was a victory for the safety of women’s health. The victory was eclipsed the next day by Richard
Nixon’s announcement of “peace with honor” in Vietnam, which brought neither
peace nor honor.
I didn’t pay much
attention to the court details except:
- It was a seven-to-two ruling
- The 14th amendment supported a woman’s right to privacy in
deciding to have an abortion balanced against the state’s interest
I had no
idea who the real Jane Roe was. Only decades
later did I learn that her real name
was Norma McCorvey. Nor did I know the names of the attorneys Sarah Weddington
and Linda Coffee. I was grateful to them, because
I knew abortions would happen,
legal or not, and now any
woman who needed one for any reason would be able to have the procedure without
the fear of dying.
Norma Leah
McCorvey
My opinion
of the need for legal abortions has been constant.
McCorvey changed her point of view. Jane Roe, aka Norma Leah McCorvey
(September 22, 1947-February 18, 2017), went from being the poster child for
the pro-choice movement to the poster child for the pro-life movement.
Why such a huge change?
I was determined to find out more about her.
Coat Hangers and Knitting Needles
is not an academic
book, but that does not mean I have
license to be inaccurate.
The
internet makes research much easier and gives me access to sources I might not
otherwise have. I do not/did not need to travel to libraries and statehouses
around the U.S. I’ve ordered many books both online
and in print. I could access news sources and television programs that even if I were doing an
academic book 20 years ago would not have been available then.
The
internet has several interviews with Norma McCorvey which helped me learn more
about her and her transformation over the years (see the bibliography).
McCorvey
was born in Simmsport, Louisiana, a town of 2.4 square miles. The 2017
population is under 3,000 people. The family eventually moved to Houston,
Texas.
Her
childhood was probably traumatic.
Her father left her with an alcoholic mother when McCorvey was 13, but she had
already had problems with the law after she stole money from a gas station.
Her lesbian
tendencies surfaced when still a minor when she rented a room for her and
another girl, her lover.
She claimed
that the happiest
time in her life was when she was at the State School of Girls
in Gainesville, Texas between ages 11 and 15. During one of her stays at her
home she said she was raped by her cousin repeatedly.
She met her
husband, Woody McCorvey, seven years her senior, and married him when she was
16.
In her
autobiography, I Am Roe, she was open
about her lesbian relationship with Connie Gonzales. Later she claimed she was
no longer a lesbian.
Won by Love was her second book, published in 1998.
She became a
Christian and her 8 August 1995 baptism was filmed and broadcast. It showed a
happy woman.
McCorvey began to work with Flip Benham and Operation Rescue,
which was founded
in 1986 to stop abortions and fight for anti-abortion legislation.
Because of
her change of opinion, McCorvey could no longer work in an abortion clinic. “I
was wrong,” she said.
Her attempt
to undo Roe v. Wade in McCorvey v. Hill, filed in 5th
District Court, failed. Under the Federal
Rules of Civil Procedure, a person can file for relief from judgment. The Court
ruled too much time had elapsed (30 years) as of 14 September
2004. The Supreme
Court did not take the case.
McCorvey died of heart
failure at the age of 69
in Katy, Texas.
She was a complex
human being with shifting opinions,
needs and emotions.
Hardtalk
BBC’s
Hardtalk was and is one of my
favorite news interview programs. The former presenter, Tim Sebastian, a seasoned, multi-lingual journalist, is as comfortable working
in the Middle East, Europe or Asia and hosted Hardtalk for many years. He interviewed
many world leaders and presented top quality news programs and debates.
If I were guilty of anything,
I would not want to be his guest. The cliché of a cat pouncing
on a mouse works. If any of his interviewees strayed from the truth or evaded
his answers, he verbally pounced and played with them until they either
admitted what they had done wrong or discredited themselves by the obviousness
of their lies.
His
interview in 2004 with Jane Roe/Norma McCorvey was different. At some point he
seemed to realize, that unlike a politician, a dictator or a corrupt
businessman, McCorvey was … was…it
is hard to find the word. Damaged seems unkind. Limited might be better. Her
sincerity came across, and Sebastian had interviewed enough
morally challenged people
or outright liars to
recognize the difference.
Kind isn’t a word I would use for him as an interviewer, but I will forever hold him in awe
how he balanced “kind” and still managed an in-depth interview.
He
introduced the program like this: “When it comes to the legal history of the
United States, the case of Roe v. Wade
is one the greatest
landmarks in 1973 and has been challenged by opponents ever since. Ironically one of them is the original Jane Roe who was cited in the original
case. She has now turned aside that pseudonym. She’s turned full circle against
that ruling and wants the ruling overturned. What happened to change her mind?”
McCorvey sat at a round table to the right of
Sebastian. Maybe three feet separated them. The background of Hardtalk’s regular
red and gold set glowed.
McCorvey leaned toward her host with her arms crossed in front and
clutching her elbows.
Sebastian gave his usual, “A very warm
welcome to the program.”
Under his
questioning she described herself as “being from the wrong side of the tracks”
and the girl mothers didn’t want their daughters to play with.
She’d had a rough childhood and an
unhappy adult life.
She told about drinking
heavily. When she found herself
pregnant for a third time,
she went to a doctor, who told her about two young lawyers
who wanted to challenge the abortion law. They
were Sarah Weddington and Linda Coffee, who would bring the case before the
Supreme Court.
McCorvey
described their meeting as drinking beer after beer. Phrases like “control your
own body” were tossed around. She thought it sounded good. Weddington promised
to take care of her, she said. Being “taken care of” was a phrase she used in
more than one interview.
In another
interview, she chided Weddington for having an abortion in Mexico, but not
helping her do the same. When McCorvey gave birth to the baby, she gave it up for adoption. She said that she resented that she
wasn’t smart enough or beautiful enough to be a spokesperson at a Washington,
D.C. rally. “I was misled,” she told Sebastian.
Sebastian, who usually went for the jugular in interviews, treated
her gently, while pointing
out some of the inconsistencies in her responses.
One example: He asked
her if she voted for George Bush. She had.
Earlier she stated she was against the death penalty, but she seemed to be unaware that Bush had
overseen many executions in Texas. McCorvey admitted she wasn’t a regular
voter.
When asked about
abortion being allowed
to save the life of a mother,
she hesitated. Earlier she had said that she was against
abortion under any circumstances.
“You say you are a Christian
now and you never were before. Do you think Christianity is incompatible with abortion?” he asked.
“Abortion is
killing and in the 10 Commandments it says thou shall not kill. I agree with
the 10 Commandments and all the teaching of the Catholic Church,” she said.
“Specifically, with the Catholic
church?” he asked. “With any church who believes abortion is
wrong.”
“The
Church of England says the situations where the continuance of the pregnancy
threatens the life of the mother a termination of pregnancy may be justified
and there must be adequate and safe provision in our society of such
situation.”
McCorvey said the decision
should be up to the priest
or the woman’s husband.
“And not
the woman?” Sebastian asked. His tone was one of seeking information not challenging.
“If she is
able,” she said. “I don’t have all the answers, Tim.” She also pointed out she
didn’t go to church in England.
She talked
about her work at an abortion clinic
where she said she saw babies ripped from
the mother’s womb. She claimed doctors only wanted
the money and would rush off to play golf after performing the procedure, leaving the women bleeding.
Abortion kills women, she said, but
she had no statistics to back up her statements. Sebastian did not challenge her in his usual method except to say there were “chinks of
light” in her no-abortion-under-any-circumstance belief.
When McCorvey
said that there were still women dying in the United States
from legalized abortion,
Sebastian asked, “How many?”
“We’re
talking about thousands.” “Where do you get these figures from” “I have no basis for them, okay?”
In a
touching moment, McCorvey held out her scarred wrists from her suicide
attempts. “What are you showing me?” Sebastian’s
voice was soft. His eyes met hers and never left her face as she described her four suicide attempts. The reason, she said, was her name being tied to the Roe v. Wade decision that she described in another television
appearance as being responsible for three generations of death.
She
admitted she lied in saying she was raped. Her pregnancy was the result of an
affair. But she also expressed her belief that her lawyers
had lied to her. “I was told by Sarah Weddington
and Linda Coffee that if abortion was made legal in Texas it would put an end to
rape and incest. It didn’t happen.
There is just as much rape going on…”
“Are you saying you were misled
by your lawyers?”
Sebastian asked.
“Yes, I am.”
“In 1983 you
were quoted in a book called The Law Giveth (by Barbara Milbauer)
talking about Sarah Weddington…”
“Who was she?” McCorvey interrupted
referring to the author.
Sebastian pointed
out that McCorvey
had described Weddington as a good listener, a very
gracious lady and knowing her was better than knowing the queen.
“I must have been stoned when I said that.” She was laughing
when she made that respo
nse.
She talked
about misquotes but didn’t
say that particular statement was a misquote.
At the end Sebastian expressed his usual
thanks.
Note: This is from my book Coat Hangers and Knitting Needles probably the most painful book I have ever written. Listening to the stories of the women I cried over and over. We thought the fight was over, but now women are dying again because of laws usually made by men who will never have to face an unwanted pregnancy with no good solutions.