Another death, another illegal abortion from my book Coat Hangers and Knitting Needles that tells of abortion before it was legal. Now that it is illegal again in many places the horror is back for many women and their families. For me, the most horrible part is that most of the laws passed against abortion are made by men, some of whom have been known to take their girl friends for abortions. Women should be the ones to write the laws on women's health along with medical experts.
Gwen Campbell Elliott’s Story
Abortions cross all racial
lines. Gwen Campbell
Elliot was called to the hospital where her mother lay dying. Like Sharon’s
mom, Vivian’s last words to her children
were to be good, also adding for her to be good in school.
Gwen was
told that her mother died in childbirth. Only when she was in college and she
saw the death certificate did she learn her mother died of an illegal abortion. Her father, she said, spent a lot of time trying to find
out who performed the abortion. His hope for justice went unfulfilled.
Gwen showed
the viewers the Jerusalem Baptist
Church, a light-yellow brick building. She said the church was the foundation of
the family.
In the 1950s, it was still the custom to lay the body out at home. Vivian
Campbell was laid out
at Gwen’s aunt’s.
Gwen knows she was at the cemetery. She remembers thinking
she could go to the cemetery and wake her sleeping
mom.
Her
parents were separated when her mother became pregnant and she’s not sure who
the father was.
Not having a mother brought other traumas. She was raised by her grandmother, who was determined her granddaughter would not be sexually active. Gwen’s periods were irregular. To make sure she wasn’t pregnant, the grandmother took her to a doctor, who did an “internal.” He also asked her if she had had sex. Gwen wasn’t sure what sex was, but she’s convinced that if her mother was alive, she would not have to be humiliated and hurt in the doctor’s office. She didn’t communicate with anyone for weeks after that. “I was a scared kid.”
“There have to be more people
like me out there. If we don’t speak out the abortion
will go the wrong way,” she
concludes.
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