How can I not love a man

How can I not love a man, whose main fault is leaving dishes on the counter rather than putting them directly into the dishwasher?

How can I not love a man who puts up with my neurotic wanting everything in its place except when it is being used?

How can I not love a man who teases me about my neurosis when I so deserve them.

The answer...

I love him for putting up with me and all his other qualities of kindness, warmth, sharing, sense of humor, intelligence, intellectual curiosity, creativity, etc., etc., etc., etc. etc., etc. etc., etc..............